"Beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing,
there is a field. I'll meet you there."
— Rumi
The conversation
you keep almost having.
A new kind of space where two people can speak,
truly listen, and see themselves more clearly.
It's late. The same thing came up again — the thing that always comes up. One of you tried to say something real. The other got defensive. Or you both did. The words that needed to land, didn't.
You go to sleep with it unfinished. Again.
Talking Stick is for that moment.
For both of you.
Built for the two of you.
Wherever you are in the story.
Couples & partners
For the conversation
you keep circling.
The one that comes up at 11pm, or over dishes, or in the car on the way somewhere else. Talking Stick gives you both a structured way into it — and out of it — without either of you having to hold the whole weight of it alone.
Co-parents
For when the stakes
are the kids.
When the relationship is over but the conversation isn't — when what you say to each other still shapes what your children experience — having a structure for it matters. Talking Stick helps you say what needs to be said, and hear what you need to hear.
How it works
Three steps.
One conversation.
You each open
the app.
Both of you on your own phones, in the same room or across town. Each person joins a shared session privately — no account required to start.
One speaks.
One truly listens.
The app gives one person the stick — uninterrupted time to speak what's real. Then it passes. No crosstalk. No interrupting. Just two people taking turns being fully heard.
See what
you both said.
When you're done, each of you receives a private reflection — patterns, moments of connection, and gentle prompts for what to try next. Yours is yours alone.
No therapist. No judge. No verdict.
Just structure for the conversation you already need to have.
Most sessions take 20–30 minutes.
Why we built this
We built Talking Stick because we kept having the same conversation — the one that never quite landed. Not because we didn't care. Because we didn't have a structure that made it safe enough to be honest, and slow enough to really hear each other.
We're not therapists. We're not trying to replace therapy. We're building a quiet, private place where two people can stop circling and actually arrive at the conversation they need to have.
Early voices
From people
who tried it first.
We'd tried everything. This was the first time I felt like he actually heard what I was saying — and I think I finally heard him too.
I was skeptical. I'm still not a therapy person. But this felt different — more like a structure than a session. I could do this.
The reflection at the end surprised me. I said things I didn't know I felt until I saw them back.
Early access
Be among the first
to find the field.
Talking Stick is in early development. Leave your email and we'll let you know when it's ready — and why we built it the way we did.
No spam. Just one quiet note when we're ready for you.